Yes you should hold a grudge until they pay compensation or formally apologise
You really need to understand why humans form towns, cities, and countries! It isnt just to communicate..... it is to have what is known as a HOME! It is to have ppl who can always have your back in times of need..... it is so that when times gets rough, you can always have a place to sit and relax along with your friends, family and kids..... it is a place where you can be safe.....if we just threw this shit out of the window for termporary gains, then such ppl and country have no dignity
When a foreign entity harms the children of a country, and such country forgets about the grudge, then such a country will be destroyed sooner or later!
Just look at the West, they until now, hates you turks for your achievements during your imperial periods; whether it was the Ottomans or the Seljuks etc..... till this day, they are afraid of a new uprising headed by you turks, till this day they dont like how Ataturk destroyed thier plans of annihilating the turks..... just look at how Germany or France treats the PKK and Turkey differently even though Turkey actually does provide support to them while the PKK just sucks from them.... just look at how the West is agitated by your achievements in the defence industry despite the ongoing embargoes! Hell! Frace even supported its archenemy Russia just to stop Turkey in Libya
If the West can hold a grudge for more than hundreds of years, then so should the turks, PERIOD!
The Turks lives arent any less important than those of the West or Russia. In fact, they may be evn more important as they dont go destroying countries and killing childrens and ravaging hospitals
I always would be sad when I see turks shitting on their heritage; I mean the Chinese, Greeks, Japanese, amd Russians all wanted to retrieve their legacies even though it fell; thus, I will say it and will always will...... the turks should be proud of their history and achievements..... They should always be proud of their heritage and the several marks they left upon civilisations...... You guys must reach the level that your ancestors reached and even surpass them..... for once, do learn this trait from that a**hole Vladimir Putin