99% of Pakistanis dont want secularism, they see it as westernising without understanding the concept, you can not impose a regime if this much of the population despises it.
Sorry, but this is an oversimplification.
(On a side note- just some opinions polls is usually not good enough to judge any socio-cultural environment due the simple fact that, human societies function in an incredibly complex manner)
In these disscusions it is important to know Pakistan's pre-1979 history, so a comprehensive understanding of the contemporary situation can be reached.
In my opinion, at that very time Pakistan made a decades-long colossal mistake that change its socio-cultual environment in way that it became almost unsalvageable.
When soviet invasion of Afghanistan began, with America's blessing and Saudi funding Pakistani state started using religious propaganda as war fighting strategy to encourage and mobilize illiterate and deeply conservative population into a holy war to assist anti-soviet resistance.
Many so called madrassas were founded with Saudi funding where poor children and youth were radicalized.
As a geopolitical and warfighting strategy it seemed successful at first, but by the end of the decade when war ended, this onimous program got too big and became a self-sustaining social phenomenon even if Pakistani state didn't want it be.
And after that, the civil war and establishment of taliban's 'Emirate' keep fueling this radicalizarion program in the region. ultimately it bit the hand that was feeding it.
9/11 happened and America's war on terror began.
The generation that grew up in the holy war's spirit against soviet invasion join the fight big bad America. And the War continued for next two more decades in Afghanistan and in Pakistan (CIA's drone program)
Another generation grew up in the spirit of holy war.
And more ironically and indeed fatally, Pakistani military stablishment kept the Taliban under its wing as a 'strategic depth' against India and a bargaining chip against USA.
Obviously this strategy later backfired on Pakistan and almost led to civil war.
Of course, there are also other contributing factors to current Social environment in Pakistan. The fact that it is a multi-ethnic country hence tribalism, high level of poverty and illiteracy, massive corruption thus failure of education system, etc.
However my point being, even with all those factors stated above, Pakistani society would've been still better off if this four decades of conflict hence systemic radicalization didn't occur.
The situation there and rest of the islamic world will stay despicable as long as illiteracy keeps ruling it.
Why does it feels like you are looking down on everybody else?
You know, it is not only Turkey that has been socially modernized among Muslim countries.
Apart from Turkey, there are other muslim countries that also has undergone more or less relatively succefull social modernization.
Even just in South East Asia when it comes to social development, BD, Indonesia and Malaysia is considerably different than Pakistan.
I urge you to be more precise in these matters.
Overgeneralisation is not a productive way to engage in sensitive topics.
