To be honest I avoid to touch the topics on the basis of relegion . In India you cant speak the truth if you do you become right wing , you cant refer to history because its bloddy . Even if you refer to holy book you become an Islamophobe .This is wrong approach. Islam is not some monolith entity existing to apply A to B over large expanse especially.
Let us be specific in targeting the issues, they stem in all cultures and societies in the end as we are all human...the contexts vary for the cake...the particular present "slice" varies too.
Even large parts of India (a continent of a country as you know) have different diversity and tolerance underlying them (compared to each other)....both on these (religion) matters and other forms of identity politics that have manifested in past, present and future.
You don't answer reductivism with more reductivism. Eye for an eye whataboutism wont achieve progress to begin with.
You have to explain our unique case in scale and context. That is only way to better discussion and some possible solution in the end to grave problems we have.
I have literally no problem with anyone outside India because its not easy to understand India . My problem comes when even Indians hide from truth and facts .......
You said eye for an eye and I say not a problem in forgiving but never forget .