Because there are factions within these countries, certainly in Germany, that hated us long before Erdogan was even close to power. I don't know how old you are, but I'm certainly old enough to remember their rhetoric from those times. If they truly fucking cared, then they would've applied those principles evenly to every other country. The fact that they don't proves that they only use it as an excuse to bludgeon the countries that they either feel enmity towards, or deem unimportant enough that they can grandstand without much consequence and people like you will gobble it up and then prance around on their high horses.If they don't, as you put it, 'give a fuck about this stuff' then why is it that they don't all want to take the profit to be made from selling Eurofighter to Turkiye?
Go and take a look at weapons sales from UK and other European countries in the last few decades, take a look at where your militaries were deployed and what they did, take a good look at which countries did you sanction and which countries you increased your trade with at the same time. If you still don't see it, you're wilfully ignorant and I have nothing more to say to someone like that.